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From Pain to Power: 15 Years After My Memoir, Here’s What Confidence and Resilience Created
The number 15 has defined two of the biggest turning points in my life.
I was 15 when I became a mother—unprepared, afraid, but determined.And my son was 15 when I published my memoir—an unfiltered story of my…

Turning 46 with a Gift for Grads – Two Life-Changing Books
Every year on my birthday, I reflect on the gifts life has given me – not the kind wrapped in bows, but the kind wrapped in pain, struggle, and unbreakable purpose.
As I count down to my 46th birthday one week from today, I can’t help…

A Night of Resilience, Reflection, and Scholarship Awards for Resilient Students: My Heartfelt Reflections
I’m still feeling the impact of the 3rd Annual S.O. What! Awards and Scholarship Soiree, and I can honestly say it was one of the most powerful nights of my life. Standing on that stage, looking out at a room filled with…

Carlos Malave S.O. What! Success Story
I love new friends!
Especially those with incredible stories of strength and resilience that inspire me and so many others.
Carlos Malave is one of the newest speakers in the agency that currently represents me for my college speaking.…

Stephanie Jackson S.O. What! Success Story
It’s amazing when you look back over your life and think about the people you’ve met on your journey. And how they inspire you today. A freshman like me, Stephanie Jackson became my line sister and soror in 1998.
She became a young mom…

4 Reasons to Ensure Saying “Happy Mother’s Day” Helps Not Hurts

Chapter 39- Celebrate Your Life While You Have It
If you've been following my blog for any amount of time or just know my story, then you know my birthdays are "special". Y
es, everyone's birthday is special, but my birthday is also the anniversary of the day I got pregnant by someone I did…

Unlucky or Just Making Bad Choices?
Minimizing our place in life to be about luck simply relieves us from responsibility for our circumstances. It says we think we have no control over our situations, and that we don't feel accountable to or powerful enough to change what we don't like.

How My Life Became a College Course
When I walked onto the campus of the University of Memphis as a freshman and mother of a two-year-old in 1997.
The last thing I ever imagined was that I would one day be a professor on that same campus. When I chose business as my degree the…