
20 Years of Sisterhood, 20,000 AKA’s in Houston, and 20 Lessons Learned
This past May I celebrated 20 years of being a member of a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.
About half of my line sisters flew into Punta Cana, DR from all over the country to celebrate the momentous occasion. We reconnected, reminisced,…

Going Places…A Life-Changing Trip
When we started the S.O. What! Foundation's STEP-OUT (Self-esteem, Teamwork, Exposure, Personal development-Overcome, Understand, Triumph) program, I knew I wanted to take the special kids in our program on a flight to Washington, DC.
Why?…

Daddy, Do You Know?
Several years ago I nervously left my son at home alone in my new apartment for the first time since my divorce.
When I came home from the birthday dinner I had gone to, I didn't know whether to be proud or sad.
With a tie sloppily hanging…

Chapter 39- Celebrate Your Life While You Have It
If you've been following my blog for any amount of time or just know my story, then you know my birthdays are "special". Y
es, everyone's birthday is special, but my birthday is also the anniversary of the day I got pregnant by someone I did…

Don’t Rush the Ring
A ring is just a symbol of what can be a very beautiful union when it's done right. But when it's done wrong, or done in a rush or under pressure, it can be a very ugly and painful situation with long-lasting consequences.

20 Years Later. So much more than I ever expected.
When I entered my senior year of high school in 1996, I couldn't wait for it to be over.
Not because I didn't like school or people there because my school, Jackson Central-Merry, was amazing.
We were award-winners and record-setters both…

What Happened When I Told It
When I started writing my first book, Life After Birth: A Memoir of Survival and Success as a Teenage Mother, I just wanted to tell my story.
Mainly, I wanted to encourage every teen mother not to give up herself, not to quit high school, and…

How My Life Became a College Course
When I walked onto the campus of the University of Memphis as a freshman and mother of a two-year-old in 1997.
The last thing I ever imagined was that I would one day be a professor on that same campus. When I chose business as my degree the…

Me in Joplin was No Accident and No Coincidence
As with every invitation I receive to speak, I am honored and excited.
I love sharing my story because I have been so blessed to see audiences light up when I share it. And it feels amazing to see people line up to talk to me afterwards.
My…