Tonight I’m grateful because it is what would have been my 12th wedding anniversary. And I’m not sad about what could have been or what at one time I thought should have been. On June 9, 2007 I got married with doubts. There was love, but there was fear, hesitation, and concern. I still walked […]
Mothers wipe tears, kiss wounds, and calm fears. Mothers love the most, understand the most, give the most, sacrifice the most, deal with the most, and hurt the most. Mothers are imperfect, selfless, and forever hold their children in their hearts. On Mother’s Day, I was blessed to be with my own mother, my 97 […]
The thing about dreams is that we all have them. Some big and some small. Sometimes they start big, get small, or even go away. Sometimes we stop dreaming completely or give up on our dreams. Sometimes we keep dreaming. And dreaming. And dreaming. But never making our dreams come true. You know the dream […]
“Summer, can you brang me my earrings?” For two weeks I had the privilege of having my grandmother stay with me. She hadn’t made the ride to Memphis to stay with me in nearly four years, but this time on my visit to see her she finally said yes when I asked her to come […]
I vividly remember the look of disappointment on my former vice president’s face when I ran into him about five years after I’d last seen him. Our sons were the same age, and he asked me how mine was doing and I asked him the same question. I probably had a similar disappointed face because […]
I was recently talking to a friend I have known for almost 20 years. She shared with me how her son’s ex-girlfriend who she had not talked to since her son dated her at least five years ago. However, she was honored that she had simply called to ask her to review her resume. She […]
It’s Dr. Martin Luther King’s birthday! As a 17 year-old high school student moving to Memphis, TN for college, I had no idea that Memphis would be my home for at least the next 20 years. And ignorantly, I didn’t know the depth of the civil rights history of the city. When I started my speaking career and then […]
As I walked into church with my friend Bilicia today- the first Sunday of the new year- I reflected on all the different ways I had walked into church (and when I didn’t) over my life. When I was a little girl, my best friend Shauna always talked about church. My mother was a Christian, […]
